Morning you good people. I had a massive day yesterday. It started perfectly with me cell phone battery packing in and was followed up beautifully with my laptop refusing to get past my password. It insisted the password I had been using for 2 years was wrong! Then on my way to see a sexy young babe, 22 years old and wanting to become an escort, I got a flat Tyre. Oh well, all's well that ends well.
There's a few things I want to talk about today so there will be a couple of posts today, possibly 3. We'll see how much time I have. First things first. Thank you to everyone that responded to yesterdays post, both in the comments section and via e-mail. I have to ask why so many of you prefer e-mail instead of simply commenting on the site. Not that I'm complaining! I love sorting through close to a hundred e-mails each morning!
Yesterday we spoke about Courtesans and how this profession differs from an escort. I must say, the amount of escorts that mailed me for tips on how to make the step up was incredible. Does this leave a gap for someone with the experience to take these young girls under their wing? I know there's a very popular sisterhood of courtesans in the UK and the US. Why isn't there one in SA?
I had a very positive response to Miss Shay from a lot of you and I must say that I'm really enjoying getting to know her better. Hopefully I'll be meeting with her directly soon, so you can be guaranteed there will be a lot more to come from her on this blog. Below is a very open piece directly from her so please feel free to comment your hearts away. What strikes me most about this lady is her honesty, directness and the undertones of promised desire.
Here's Miss Shay, responding to yesterdays blog and answering the question posed by Harry. "What makes a courtesan exclusive and what do you look for in a client"?
MISS SHAY
"I had to laugh at the guy who says he found my advert and didn't think I looked that exclusive. How does one portray the totalness, the complexity, the very epitome of who I am in a mere advert. This is why I am launching a site, as I find these adverts, and the sites I have to use, seedy to say the least. Escorts, courtesans and hookers are all lumped in the same bag, and generally the only distinction between them is the rate they charge. I have come across 21 year olds calling themselves courtesans in an attempt to beguile and lure their next shag.
But let me not wax lyrical... we'll do that plenty in the interview I'm sure.
To answer Harry's question regarding a courtesans values, I cannot speak for all, as there are plenty with the label, but none with the soul of a true courtesan. Although I have been described as a courtesan for many years prior to officially becoming one, I still see myself as a just another girl...
I have a humility that belies my profession, and although I've always been motivated by money, am not materialistic - and there is a difference! I am one of the most "real" people you will ever meet - I frequently call a spade a shovel, and I never shy away from the truth. The values that lie really close to my heart are honour and integrity; two words with such a wealth of history and meaning encompassing them, but our society has belittled these regal words to the drab one we use today: Honesty.
Harry I'll put it this way for you: You can put all of Richard Branson and Bill Gates money on a table in front of me, but if you demean me, humiliate me, or treat me as anything less than what I am worthy of, I WILL WALK AWAY. I have walked away from moneyed clients before and I will again.
Imagine the epitome of your concept of a goddess, a queen, your virgin bride... whatever guise the lady of your dreams comes in... How would you treat her? All I ask is that you treat me in a similar way. Men who understand the words honour and integrity are such men. Sometimes they are not wealthy men; sometimes they are. Irrespective of their affordability of my services, I choose as a Courtesan to spend time with men of character. Incidentally, I also choose as a daughter, as a sister, as an aunt, as a friend, as whatever role I play in my life, to spend time with people of character. People with dignity, and an abiding respect for their fellow man."
Thank you Shay. We'll talk soon.
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
The escort v/s the courtesan
What's the difference? The difference is short term v/s long term.
An escort is a fuck buddy. You rock up at the venue, get naked and have fun. You generally pay for an hour, although sometimes you'll find someone willing to do it for 30 minutes.
A courtesan rarely spends less than 3 hours with a gentleman client. Their time is spent around erotic intimacy. A courtesan prides herself in being intelligent, sophisticated and able to hold the attention of any discerning executive. A courtesan will keep her clients.
The difference is client. A courtesan is well sought after and commands the attention of clients who aren't afraid to spend money. Anything from R10 000 and up. R50 000 for a weekend with a single gentleman, while an escort will screw more than 40 men to match the earnings.
Is there a difference in the sex? A BIG YES. An escort can be dirty. She's open to a lot. You'll fuck her the way you wish you could fuck your wife. Anything goes!
With a courtesan it can also be dirty, but mostly its intimate. Passionate. Mind blowing and worth every cent.
South Africa is unfortunate in the riches of the true courtesan. We've had the legend that was Miss Clara. The current queen that's Miss Tess, the princess that looks delicious, Miss Sophia and now the sophisticated Miss Shay, whose name alone intrigues me with its tantalizing originality. We are so far behind the rest of the world in this specialized trade in the sex industry that I'm hoping for more and more, but each day dissapointed as really beautiful women choose the escort route.
Watch this space for some real content coming through on the courtesan as I sell you the benefits of experiencing a truly once in a life time sexual adventure.
An escort is a fuck buddy. You rock up at the venue, get naked and have fun. You generally pay for an hour, although sometimes you'll find someone willing to do it for 30 minutes.
A courtesan rarely spends less than 3 hours with a gentleman client. Their time is spent around erotic intimacy. A courtesan prides herself in being intelligent, sophisticated and able to hold the attention of any discerning executive. A courtesan will keep her clients.
The difference is client. A courtesan is well sought after and commands the attention of clients who aren't afraid to spend money. Anything from R10 000 and up. R50 000 for a weekend with a single gentleman, while an escort will screw more than 40 men to match the earnings.
Is there a difference in the sex? A BIG YES. An escort can be dirty. She's open to a lot. You'll fuck her the way you wish you could fuck your wife. Anything goes!
With a courtesan it can also be dirty, but mostly its intimate. Passionate. Mind blowing and worth every cent.
South Africa is unfortunate in the riches of the true courtesan. We've had the legend that was Miss Clara. The current queen that's Miss Tess, the princess that looks delicious, Miss Sophia and now the sophisticated Miss Shay, whose name alone intrigues me with its tantalizing originality. We are so far behind the rest of the world in this specialized trade in the sex industry that I'm hoping for more and more, but each day dissapointed as really beautiful women choose the escort route.
Watch this space for some real content coming through on the courtesan as I sell you the benefits of experiencing a truly once in a life time sexual adventure.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Germans celebrate with SA escorts
Sunday night turned into Monday morning with absolutely no sleep! I'm writing this blog after zero sleep for 28 hours now.
8 German gentlemen, ages ranging from 32 to 55 joined me for the England v Germany game. To start off with they were very nervous, obviously this was a huge game for their country. Luckily Germany prevailed.
After the game I took them to a private house in Bryanston where we were met by Monique, Jade, Jemma, Queen, Bella, Anne and Sara. 6 sexy escorts who charge between R1000 to R2500 for an hour of their time. But this wasn't what they were expecting.
As is usual with many escorts in this country, they are wary about people contacting them. Usually when I contact escorts with opportunities I'm met with deafening silence. Sometimes I'll get a reply or two and then nothing. This never bothers me. I'm used to it. I never give up. I continue doing what I do until eventually I find one willing to have a go at something I set up and they reap the rewards. Just ask Jade. She was very resistant to me and my blog. 6 months it took me to win her over and eventually I reviewed her services and she's had 56 calls from my readers.
The girls were pleasantly surprised when these German fellows started throwing money at them to do stupid things like take their clothes off. Sara, a petite blond goddess was paid R3000 just to take her panties off.
Germans know how to have a good time. I expected to be out of there by midnight. The girls were tired, but they all had close to R20 000 in their pockets so they were willing to stick it out. And they did just that, organizing follow up dates and specials, way above the rates they usually charge.
A big thank you to the girls for going the extra mile and to the gentlemen for showing such class around them.
Next big night out is going to be strange. Thursday night I'm taking three Uruguayan gentlemen who can't speak a word of English, out to Lollypop Lounge with three stunning girls.
8 German gentlemen, ages ranging from 32 to 55 joined me for the England v Germany game. To start off with they were very nervous, obviously this was a huge game for their country. Luckily Germany prevailed.
After the game I took them to a private house in Bryanston where we were met by Monique, Jade, Jemma, Queen, Bella, Anne and Sara. 6 sexy escorts who charge between R1000 to R2500 for an hour of their time. But this wasn't what they were expecting.
As is usual with many escorts in this country, they are wary about people contacting them. Usually when I contact escorts with opportunities I'm met with deafening silence. Sometimes I'll get a reply or two and then nothing. This never bothers me. I'm used to it. I never give up. I continue doing what I do until eventually I find one willing to have a go at something I set up and they reap the rewards. Just ask Jade. She was very resistant to me and my blog. 6 months it took me to win her over and eventually I reviewed her services and she's had 56 calls from my readers.
The girls were pleasantly surprised when these German fellows started throwing money at them to do stupid things like take their clothes off. Sara, a petite blond goddess was paid R3000 just to take her panties off.
Germans know how to have a good time. I expected to be out of there by midnight. The girls were tired, but they all had close to R20 000 in their pockets so they were willing to stick it out. And they did just that, organizing follow up dates and specials, way above the rates they usually charge.
A big thank you to the girls for going the extra mile and to the gentlemen for showing such class around them.
Next big night out is going to be strange. Thursday night I'm taking three Uruguayan gentlemen who can't speak a word of English, out to Lollypop Lounge with three stunning girls.
Friday, June 25, 2010
The affairs of the mind
I've met a lot of people that have cheated their respective other. In fact I have done that very thing many times and have been on the receiving end almost as much. Each and every time I did it, there was always that immediate ping of regret. At first it would eat away at me for days, consume my every thought and literally pound me into the ground. Now though, it lasts a few minutes.
I don't think it's because I've become used to it. I've become accustomed to the idea that we as humans don't belong with one person.
My grandfather was married to my grandmother for 66 years and after his death, at his funeral, a man in his thirties showed up to pay his respects. No one knew him, but we discovered that he was his son. Ouch!
Marriage is a great thing at first, but it has a way of draining the life out of you. You get to be in a place that is a "complete comfort zone." That means you know each other so well, that it's almost impossible to surprise each other. Where is the spark if there's no spontaneity? Where is the desire if there's no excitement?
You want a fact? The occasional illicit affair is good for a marriage. It will make you more attentive to your significant other. The guilt will drive you into their arms on a different level and you'll be apologizing to your partner on a subconscious level every single day of your life.
But here's the kicker. And this is the only advice I can offer. If you're going to have an affair, then do it through a company that offers discreet relationships with like minded people. I'm not talking about the money making scams like Adult Friend Finder. I'm talking about a legitimate introduction service. Visit escorts, but pay the extra money for the exclusive ones who are picky about their clients and only use protection. OR - have an affair with someone who is married. They have as much as you to lose and will treat the relationship with the same level of discretion as you will.
Married women who have a kid or two and have been in a relationship for a few years crave intimacy. I enjoyed a 7 month affair with a married woman. And she loved being with me because I paid special attention to her. I went down on her constantly, something her husband hardly or never did to her anymore. We would often have sex during lunch breaks in the dark corner of a parking lot. Give a woman the attention and excitement she craves and her life will be fuller for it. So will yours and believe me, so will her husbands.
I don't think it's because I've become used to it. I've become accustomed to the idea that we as humans don't belong with one person.
My grandfather was married to my grandmother for 66 years and after his death, at his funeral, a man in his thirties showed up to pay his respects. No one knew him, but we discovered that he was his son. Ouch!
Marriage is a great thing at first, but it has a way of draining the life out of you. You get to be in a place that is a "complete comfort zone." That means you know each other so well, that it's almost impossible to surprise each other. Where is the spark if there's no spontaneity? Where is the desire if there's no excitement?
You want a fact? The occasional illicit affair is good for a marriage. It will make you more attentive to your significant other. The guilt will drive you into their arms on a different level and you'll be apologizing to your partner on a subconscious level every single day of your life.
But here's the kicker. And this is the only advice I can offer. If you're going to have an affair, then do it through a company that offers discreet relationships with like minded people. I'm not talking about the money making scams like Adult Friend Finder. I'm talking about a legitimate introduction service. Visit escorts, but pay the extra money for the exclusive ones who are picky about their clients and only use protection. OR - have an affair with someone who is married. They have as much as you to lose and will treat the relationship with the same level of discretion as you will.
Married women who have a kid or two and have been in a relationship for a few years crave intimacy. I enjoyed a 7 month affair with a married woman. And she loved being with me because I paid special attention to her. I went down on her constantly, something her husband hardly or never did to her anymore. We would often have sex during lunch breaks in the dark corner of a parking lot. Give a woman the attention and excitement she craves and her life will be fuller for it. So will yours and believe me, so will her husbands.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
escorts to be given a voice
I was invited to a presentation this morning being given by an old friend of mine. He's one hell of an entrepreneur and ran several of SA's most successful main stream magazines. He is also a lover of the sex industry and owned a strip club in Midrand which he closed down after he got married.
The presentation was on a business plan surrounding escorts. Another one? That's the first thing I thought. But during the presentation I was struck at how original this all was and that this could actually work.
Here's the main idea and please keep in mind that I can't reveal too much just yet.
The platform will give escorts free advertising across 3 categories. The categories are in accordance to the amount of money they charge for their time.
1. R1000 - R1999
2. R2000 - R2999
3. R3000 plus.
The escorts will become partners in the business, meaning its success is their success. There is no referral commission, so whatever an escort makes through the business is her own. She also forks out zero cash to be part of the business, so there is absolutely no risk to her. I was puzzled by this, because if you start this kind of business then you're in it for the money.
"If the escort is given everything for free, then how do you make your money?
I was promptly told to shut up and keep listening.
There is a specific criteria that's laid down according to the 3 categories, but if an escort meets the criteria then she's in.
So how do these guys make money? They will make money through content available on the site to registered members. They will also make money through e-mailer sponsorship from strip clubs and sex shops and bullets on the website.
But, the main point is that they will NOT make any money off the escorts showcased on the website.
The main idea is to attract fun women who are pleasing to the eye and can attract paying customers to the website where everyone will make money.
The site is set to launch in October. They currently have secured 12 of the 30 women set to feature in the launch.
Interesting. Pop me a mail if you want to know more and I'll e-mail any updates that I receive. p.tren@live.com
The presentation was on a business plan surrounding escorts. Another one? That's the first thing I thought. But during the presentation I was struck at how original this all was and that this could actually work.
Here's the main idea and please keep in mind that I can't reveal too much just yet.
The platform will give escorts free advertising across 3 categories. The categories are in accordance to the amount of money they charge for their time.
1. R1000 - R1999
2. R2000 - R2999
3. R3000 plus.
The escorts will become partners in the business, meaning its success is their success. There is no referral commission, so whatever an escort makes through the business is her own. She also forks out zero cash to be part of the business, so there is absolutely no risk to her. I was puzzled by this, because if you start this kind of business then you're in it for the money.
"If the escort is given everything for free, then how do you make your money?
I was promptly told to shut up and keep listening.
There is a specific criteria that's laid down according to the 3 categories, but if an escort meets the criteria then she's in.
So how do these guys make money? They will make money through content available on the site to registered members. They will also make money through e-mailer sponsorship from strip clubs and sex shops and bullets on the website.
But, the main point is that they will NOT make any money off the escorts showcased on the website.
The main idea is to attract fun women who are pleasing to the eye and can attract paying customers to the website where everyone will make money.
The site is set to launch in October. They currently have secured 12 of the 30 women set to feature in the launch.
Interesting. Pop me a mail if you want to know more and I'll e-mail any updates that I receive. p.tren@live.com
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Review of Jade
http://angie96.escort9.com/
Jade is a delightful woman to spend an hour with. She's a lot shorter than she looks in her profile, but I'm happy to report that her body is exactly what you see. Smoking! It was already a damn hot day when I drove up to her place just before 11am and i had no idea what was in store for me.
Jade answered the door wearing a short summer dress, her legs gleaming as the sun bathed her gorgeous body in radiant light. She greeted me with a genuine smile and a pleasant hug.
As I do, when I meet a working girl to do a review, I like to chat to them. I mean why wouldn't you? I encourage people in my writing not just to look at these women as screwing machines, but to consider them as real women worth befriending. She laughed and joked about life. We spoke for ten minutes and her enthusiasm and professionalism when approaching her job is infectious to say the least.
I sat in a very comfortable chair across from her, eying her well tanned legs and shapely hips. Slowly she stood and in one swift movement lifted the dress over her head. She was topless beneath, a small pair of red panties. I don't know why this is, but my heart will always skip a beat when I see a sexy woman naked.
Jade has an amazing gift. Seductive eyes. She has this incredible ability to turn you on from just looking at you. As she slowly stepped toward me, her eyes never leaving mine, I felt myself going hard. My hands started to sweat as I realized that in less than 2 minutes I would have my hands wrapped over her perky breasts.
She climbed onto my lap and led my hands across her body. She let me touch her everywhere while she kissed my neck and face. For 15 minutes we made out. For 15 minutes all we did was touch each other. Her small hands wrapped around my cock was amazing. My fingers inside every hole she had was driving me crazy.
As she led me into the bedroom, I watched her tight ass. It's been a long time since I've wanted to give a woman anal. I started on top. Condom on, it was slow at first. Jade doesn't lie there. She's active. Her hands are constantly moving over your body. She never stops moaning. Not fake screaming. Soft, warm moaning that's a pleasure to hear. Her tongue is always in your ear or across your neck. Who would have thought that sex with an escort could be passionate!
Jade on top was my favorite. Her eyes closed, she bites her bottom lip as she bounces up and down. My cock wants to explode it's so hard. She's relentless in the way she moves, up, down and then back and forth. I feel myself getting close to climax so I quickly sit up and stop her. I don't want this to end now. She knows what I'm doing and whispers in my ear. "Make me cum"
I want to so badly. I want her to enjoy this as much as I am. So I turn her around onto her knees. I use the wet juices from her pussy to wet around her ass and slowly push myself inside her. She loves anal and squeals for me to go all the way in. I'm gentle, because I know how painful this can be if you do it wrong. With every push she moans louder. She's fingering herself and each time I go in she grabs my balls. I see her pussy dripping and the signs are there, so I pull out and start ramming inside her pussy. It takes two minutes and I feel her body rock silently. I feel the wetness of her splash over my balls and her pussy goes so tight I can barely move inside her. I cum instantly during this, because feeling a woman orgasm while you're inside her is the most unbelievably feeling a man can experience. As I cum, I'm finished. I suddenly feel my knees and my back and lie down. Jade rests her head on my chest and cuddles me for a couple of minutes, both of us catching our breath. I was with Jade for just over an hour and I can promise you this much. She is worth every cent of the R2000 you'll pay to be with her.
Even though I am fortunate to have had my time with her for free, I will definitely become a paying customer.
Jade is a delightful woman to spend an hour with. She's a lot shorter than she looks in her profile, but I'm happy to report that her body is exactly what you see. Smoking! It was already a damn hot day when I drove up to her place just before 11am and i had no idea what was in store for me.
Jade answered the door wearing a short summer dress, her legs gleaming as the sun bathed her gorgeous body in radiant light. She greeted me with a genuine smile and a pleasant hug.
As I do, when I meet a working girl to do a review, I like to chat to them. I mean why wouldn't you? I encourage people in my writing not just to look at these women as screwing machines, but to consider them as real women worth befriending. She laughed and joked about life. We spoke for ten minutes and her enthusiasm and professionalism when approaching her job is infectious to say the least.
I sat in a very comfortable chair across from her, eying her well tanned legs and shapely hips. Slowly she stood and in one swift movement lifted the dress over her head. She was topless beneath, a small pair of red panties. I don't know why this is, but my heart will always skip a beat when I see a sexy woman naked.
Jade has an amazing gift. Seductive eyes. She has this incredible ability to turn you on from just looking at you. As she slowly stepped toward me, her eyes never leaving mine, I felt myself going hard. My hands started to sweat as I realized that in less than 2 minutes I would have my hands wrapped over her perky breasts.
She climbed onto my lap and led my hands across her body. She let me touch her everywhere while she kissed my neck and face. For 15 minutes we made out. For 15 minutes all we did was touch each other. Her small hands wrapped around my cock was amazing. My fingers inside every hole she had was driving me crazy.
As she led me into the bedroom, I watched her tight ass. It's been a long time since I've wanted to give a woman anal. I started on top. Condom on, it was slow at first. Jade doesn't lie there. She's active. Her hands are constantly moving over your body. She never stops moaning. Not fake screaming. Soft, warm moaning that's a pleasure to hear. Her tongue is always in your ear or across your neck. Who would have thought that sex with an escort could be passionate!
Jade on top was my favorite. Her eyes closed, she bites her bottom lip as she bounces up and down. My cock wants to explode it's so hard. She's relentless in the way she moves, up, down and then back and forth. I feel myself getting close to climax so I quickly sit up and stop her. I don't want this to end now. She knows what I'm doing and whispers in my ear. "Make me cum"
I want to so badly. I want her to enjoy this as much as I am. So I turn her around onto her knees. I use the wet juices from her pussy to wet around her ass and slowly push myself inside her. She loves anal and squeals for me to go all the way in. I'm gentle, because I know how painful this can be if you do it wrong. With every push she moans louder. She's fingering herself and each time I go in she grabs my balls. I see her pussy dripping and the signs are there, so I pull out and start ramming inside her pussy. It takes two minutes and I feel her body rock silently. I feel the wetness of her splash over my balls and her pussy goes so tight I can barely move inside her. I cum instantly during this, because feeling a woman orgasm while you're inside her is the most unbelievably feeling a man can experience. As I cum, I'm finished. I suddenly feel my knees and my back and lie down. Jade rests her head on my chest and cuddles me for a couple of minutes, both of us catching our breath. I was with Jade for just over an hour and I can promise you this much. She is worth every cent of the R2000 you'll pay to be with her.
Even though I am fortunate to have had my time with her for free, I will definitely become a paying customer.
The art of the sensual massage
Why is it so many people e-mail me and complain about escorts who offer a sensual massage? You have no idea how many I get. They say that this is an art that South African women have never been able to master. Now I'm posting this because in many ways I agree. A sensual massage is in many ways just a fancy way of paying for sex. You get what you pay for, plain and simple.
A sensual massage for most men has one meaning. "Happy Ending!" Fine if that's all you're interested in. For me though, the happy ending is the cherry and a small payoff if the women knows what she's doing. Now I have yet to meet a South African escort who gives a great sensual massage.
It isn't about the oils that they use. It isn't about the nakedness or the near nakedness to some extent and it certainly isn't about the explosion of cum once all is said and done.
I had the privilege of interviewing Monica Van Tiel about 2 years ago, before my return to South Africa. She's a gorgeous thirty something woman who only did sensual massages. There was no penetration, but she was open to giving oral. When I arrived at her place in Germany, I was greeted with a warm smile and a pleasant hug. This was an interview. She happened to be retired and I was getting some insights into the European trade.
After an hour I stood up and thanked her for her time. I told her that I would write a good article on her but that I had to admit I was skeptical about her claim that men would pay her full rates just for the massage and sometimes not even urge her for the "Happy ending."
This pissed her off. To prove her point I was promptly told I would be getting a massage immediately. She was tough, there was no saying no.
Five minutes later I'm face down on a table, small towel over my naked ass, and Miss Tiel, rubbing oil into my back and legs in nothing but a tiny pantie.
HEAVEN! For half an hour she dug her fingers into my back. Every now and then she'd reach under the towel and run a finger across my asshole or gently squeeze my balls. She even climbed on the table and nibbled my neck while her hard nipples pressed into my back.
By the time I flipped over onto my back, I was as solid as a rock. BUT, I was also relaxed and completely at ease. Every inch of my body was tingling. I was sensitive to her every touch and didn't want her to stop. I knew, that the happy ending would just be a signal that it was over.
So when she was done, she smiled and said, "how would you like me to finish it?"
"oral", I said.
She slapped a condom on me and I came in about 30 seconds. WOW!
Now in South Africa, I've yet to meet someone that can pull this art off. If you know anyone that advertises this and made you feel incredible, let me know.
I myself contacted a number of sexy escorts asking them to elaborate on their technique. I got 8 responses from across the country, but this one stood out for me. Jody, over at Paramour: http://paramourescorts.co.za/profile/jody
A blond bombshell with gorgeous tits and one of the sexiest profiles I've ever read. She could very well be worth the trouble, but please note I've never used her so in no way can recommend her. Here's her response to my question.
"I do believe i offer a very good toe curling sensual massage.I start off with a proper massage then it becomes more sensual with my finger tips,i then do a boobrub all over the back as well as front,i use the tip of my tongue to stroke every inch of the top body,i use my hair to caress & stroke the body,i take my time as that is what sets the mood for whats to follow."
Thanks Jody. Now I wonder what you mean by "whats to follow" I'm intrigued.
Cheers
A sensual massage for most men has one meaning. "Happy Ending!" Fine if that's all you're interested in. For me though, the happy ending is the cherry and a small payoff if the women knows what she's doing. Now I have yet to meet a South African escort who gives a great sensual massage.
It isn't about the oils that they use. It isn't about the nakedness or the near nakedness to some extent and it certainly isn't about the explosion of cum once all is said and done.
I had the privilege of interviewing Monica Van Tiel about 2 years ago, before my return to South Africa. She's a gorgeous thirty something woman who only did sensual massages. There was no penetration, but she was open to giving oral. When I arrived at her place in Germany, I was greeted with a warm smile and a pleasant hug. This was an interview. She happened to be retired and I was getting some insights into the European trade.
After an hour I stood up and thanked her for her time. I told her that I would write a good article on her but that I had to admit I was skeptical about her claim that men would pay her full rates just for the massage and sometimes not even urge her for the "Happy ending."
This pissed her off. To prove her point I was promptly told I would be getting a massage immediately. She was tough, there was no saying no.
Five minutes later I'm face down on a table, small towel over my naked ass, and Miss Tiel, rubbing oil into my back and legs in nothing but a tiny pantie.
HEAVEN! For half an hour she dug her fingers into my back. Every now and then she'd reach under the towel and run a finger across my asshole or gently squeeze my balls. She even climbed on the table and nibbled my neck while her hard nipples pressed into my back.
By the time I flipped over onto my back, I was as solid as a rock. BUT, I was also relaxed and completely at ease. Every inch of my body was tingling. I was sensitive to her every touch and didn't want her to stop. I knew, that the happy ending would just be a signal that it was over.
So when she was done, she smiled and said, "how would you like me to finish it?"
"oral", I said.
She slapped a condom on me and I came in about 30 seconds. WOW!
Now in South Africa, I've yet to meet someone that can pull this art off. If you know anyone that advertises this and made you feel incredible, let me know.
I myself contacted a number of sexy escorts asking them to elaborate on their technique. I got 8 responses from across the country, but this one stood out for me. Jody, over at Paramour: http://paramourescorts.co.za/profile/jody
A blond bombshell with gorgeous tits and one of the sexiest profiles I've ever read. She could very well be worth the trouble, but please note I've never used her so in no way can recommend her. Here's her response to my question.
"I do believe i offer a very good toe curling sensual massage.I start off with a proper massage then it becomes more sensual with my finger tips,i then do a boobrub all over the back as well as front,i use the tip of my tongue to stroke every inch of the top body,i use my hair to caress & stroke the body,i take my time as that is what sets the mood for whats to follow."
Thanks Jody. Now I wonder what you mean by "whats to follow" I'm intrigued.
Cheers
Monday, June 21, 2010
Escorts with a difference
I broke into the magazine porn industry completely by accident. I answered an advert for Hustler in the UK while living in Rotherham. The advert called for sexy stories written for first sexual experiences, so I wrote a story about me screwing my next door neighbors wife at the tender age of 18. It was bullshit of course. A complete fantasy that unfortunately never came true but got me an interview and a job.
From there I've written for many magazines in Europe and the States. At the age of 34, I sometimes feel overwhelmed at the amount of women I've seen naked. In fact sex is somewhat an everyday thing for me. I still get my kicks though, which is why my ties to the industry are still there, even though I don't actively write for anyone except myself. Because of this I've been looked at funny many times and many times people have asked me how I can do what I do. The fact is I do it because I love it. I love meeting interesting people and women who ply their trade in this industry are the most interesting.
Interesting because they know how to live two lives. The one in the bed and the one that relatives know. Interesting because most of them have been screwed over at least once by people who view them as a money making object. I have long called for a system to be put in place that gives a working girl the power to write her own destiny and market herself to the clients that she chooses and hasn't been chosen for her. What a novel idea? A working girl that has the power to turn away business?
I'm going on a limb, as I tend to do, after receiving a comprehensive e-mail from Paramour. Now I haven't had the good fortune of taking a really deep look into their systems or business plan, because they're fresh. Brand spanking new. Their model has been formulated by people that haven't been in the trade before so they're learning as they go. TRUST me! That's a good thing because they aren't corrupted by the teachings of the shady brothel owner or the greed infested "pimp". They seem genuine enough with their intentions, offering their girls a system rating through approval and full access to their profiles as administrators, giving them 100% control over what their profiles does and says.
In short, I like the concept. Time will tell if it works though.
Go check them out here: paramourescorts.co.za
Oh and they're offering the first 50 escorts free exposure for the first 3 months. Space is limited and filling up fast, so if you're keen contact info@paramourescorts.co.za
From there I've written for many magazines in Europe and the States. At the age of 34, I sometimes feel overwhelmed at the amount of women I've seen naked. In fact sex is somewhat an everyday thing for me. I still get my kicks though, which is why my ties to the industry are still there, even though I don't actively write for anyone except myself. Because of this I've been looked at funny many times and many times people have asked me how I can do what I do. The fact is I do it because I love it. I love meeting interesting people and women who ply their trade in this industry are the most interesting.
Interesting because they know how to live two lives. The one in the bed and the one that relatives know. Interesting because most of them have been screwed over at least once by people who view them as a money making object. I have long called for a system to be put in place that gives a working girl the power to write her own destiny and market herself to the clients that she chooses and hasn't been chosen for her. What a novel idea? A working girl that has the power to turn away business?
I'm going on a limb, as I tend to do, after receiving a comprehensive e-mail from Paramour. Now I haven't had the good fortune of taking a really deep look into their systems or business plan, because they're fresh. Brand spanking new. Their model has been formulated by people that haven't been in the trade before so they're learning as they go. TRUST me! That's a good thing because they aren't corrupted by the teachings of the shady brothel owner or the greed infested "pimp". They seem genuine enough with their intentions, offering their girls a system rating through approval and full access to their profiles as administrators, giving them 100% control over what their profiles does and says.
In short, I like the concept. Time will tell if it works though.
Go check them out here: paramourescorts.co.za
Oh and they're offering the first 50 escorts free exposure for the first 3 months. Space is limited and filling up fast, so if you're keen contact info@paramourescorts.co.za
A weekend of BJ's!
I hit the town on Saturday night with a couple of mates. Fuck it was cold! First we drove around for a while looking for a decent drive through to buy a burger. Came right with Mac D and a big mac. Stomachs full, we hit Brightwater Commons for a session of drinking.
6 beers later and we spot these four chicks chattering away in Argentinian. Probably talking about the soccer and how their team is spanking the rest of the world. Luckily two of the girls can kind of speak English, so there is a small measure of communication.
We buy them drinks. They laugh. They brag about how great their team is. We're checking out their delicious curves and not hearing a word they're saying!
Another 3 beers, five shots of tequila and I'm in the back seat of my car while I'm proud to say, the best looking one of the four has my whole cock in her mouth. Deep throat like you can only fantasize about. I don't know if it was all the alcohol or the cold weather but it took 3 minutes for me to blow my load down her throat.
Luckily she didn't seem to mind though. I kind of felt bad so I went down on her just to make up for it. One thing I can say about Argentinian chicks is that somebody needs to tell them that pruning is NOT against the law. This was one hell of a hairy bitch. I didn't mind too much though because she had a sexy, sweet tasting pussy. It did though take all my skills flicking the bean though to finally get her to cum after almost 15 minutes of painful tongue wagging. Shame, I apologized to my tongue with a well earned Black Label back at the bar.
Her friends were all giggling and checking me out. I didn't know whether to feel embarrassed for cumming so quickly or proud for showing patience and skill with the tongue.
My mates as usual were ecstatic for one reason only. "You came in her mouth?" "Awesome" We men are easily impressed.
The night wore on. I was close to being completely fucked. My mate Martin kept asking me to speak to one of the chics for him. He's a shy guy. I told him I'd try. She was a little overweight compared to the other three, but was gorgeous non the less. I took her to the back, away from my friends and started telling her about Martin and then realized this was one of the four that couldn't speak English. I spluttered out some garbage in sign language that made me look like a spas, but to her must have meant something completely different because she smiled, pushed me into the back room where they keep the crates and gave me an unforgettable blow job. This time I was well up for it! This bitch had skills, swallowed hungrily and didn't even wait for me to reciprocate.
I've decided I'm supporting Argentina for the remainder of the Football World Cup.
After we said our goodbyes and I took a taxi home, I realized I had better apologize to Martin. I know he reads my blog so..sorry mate!
6 beers later and we spot these four chicks chattering away in Argentinian. Probably talking about the soccer and how their team is spanking the rest of the world. Luckily two of the girls can kind of speak English, so there is a small measure of communication.
We buy them drinks. They laugh. They brag about how great their team is. We're checking out their delicious curves and not hearing a word they're saying!
Another 3 beers, five shots of tequila and I'm in the back seat of my car while I'm proud to say, the best looking one of the four has my whole cock in her mouth. Deep throat like you can only fantasize about. I don't know if it was all the alcohol or the cold weather but it took 3 minutes for me to blow my load down her throat.
Luckily she didn't seem to mind though. I kind of felt bad so I went down on her just to make up for it. One thing I can say about Argentinian chicks is that somebody needs to tell them that pruning is NOT against the law. This was one hell of a hairy bitch. I didn't mind too much though because she had a sexy, sweet tasting pussy. It did though take all my skills flicking the bean though to finally get her to cum after almost 15 minutes of painful tongue wagging. Shame, I apologized to my tongue with a well earned Black Label back at the bar.
Her friends were all giggling and checking me out. I didn't know whether to feel embarrassed for cumming so quickly or proud for showing patience and skill with the tongue.
My mates as usual were ecstatic for one reason only. "You came in her mouth?" "Awesome" We men are easily impressed.
The night wore on. I was close to being completely fucked. My mate Martin kept asking me to speak to one of the chics for him. He's a shy guy. I told him I'd try. She was a little overweight compared to the other three, but was gorgeous non the less. I took her to the back, away from my friends and started telling her about Martin and then realized this was one of the four that couldn't speak English. I spluttered out some garbage in sign language that made me look like a spas, but to her must have meant something completely different because she smiled, pushed me into the back room where they keep the crates and gave me an unforgettable blow job. This time I was well up for it! This bitch had skills, swallowed hungrily and didn't even wait for me to reciprocate.
I've decided I'm supporting Argentina for the remainder of the Football World Cup.
After we said our goodbyes and I took a taxi home, I realized I had better apologize to Martin. I know he reads my blog so..sorry mate!
Friday, June 18, 2010
Seduce her imagination...
...and you'll get to taste the sweet nectar straight from her pussy.
I remembered a day when I sat down with renowned sex therapist Amelia Day. Based in Florida, US, back when I was writing for Rockstar, a fantastic porn magazine that's launched the careers of some of today's hottest porn stars. She was fascinated by the fact that I was South African. As I sat down in her living room, she leaned over and whispered..."I've never fucked a South African man before." I was rock hard in 0.2 seconds, sweaty and horny instantly. She smiled, sat back, crossed her legs.
"The imagination is the most powerful sexual tool we humans posses. It's more potent than a six pack and blows a leggy blond with big boobs straight out the water."
I couldn't help but laugh a little uncomfortably as I sat there trying to shift what was becoming an increasingly painful hard-on that was lying in a horrible position. She noticed my discomfort and promptly told me to right myself.
So there I was, standing in front of a really beautiful woman with a wicked smile, hand down my pants, shifting my cock around. BLIND!
We spoke about a lot of things that day. But the one thing that stood out for me most, was the insight into the female sexual brain.
Most women think about sex more than a guy. What they do differently though, is hide it well. We guys are blatant about it. We allow it to dominate us. We turn our heads when a hot chic passes us in the street. We talk about it with our friends. We watch porn and jack off the moment we have a slight stiff cock.
Women use it though. They allow it to fill their entire being. They use it as a tool. It's like a weapon that will always keep a woman at the top of the food chain. We have no power over it. We are blind before it and will do anything to own it.
The problem for men though, is we cannot turn it off. Our off switch is a sweet load of cum dispersed every where and any where. A woman can lose it instantly. AND normally, 90% of the time, we are the cause of that loss. We turn a woman off by groping at her, by staring at her.
You want a woman to stay hot. Get hotter? Then play with her imagination. Small touches. Small, short phrases. A small smile. A gentle kiss. A sweet suggestion. The best advice I ever received? When seducing a woman, LESS IS MORE.
I remembered a day when I sat down with renowned sex therapist Amelia Day. Based in Florida, US, back when I was writing for Rockstar, a fantastic porn magazine that's launched the careers of some of today's hottest porn stars. She was fascinated by the fact that I was South African. As I sat down in her living room, she leaned over and whispered..."I've never fucked a South African man before." I was rock hard in 0.2 seconds, sweaty and horny instantly. She smiled, sat back, crossed her legs.
"The imagination is the most powerful sexual tool we humans posses. It's more potent than a six pack and blows a leggy blond with big boobs straight out the water."
I couldn't help but laugh a little uncomfortably as I sat there trying to shift what was becoming an increasingly painful hard-on that was lying in a horrible position. She noticed my discomfort and promptly told me to right myself.
So there I was, standing in front of a really beautiful woman with a wicked smile, hand down my pants, shifting my cock around. BLIND!
We spoke about a lot of things that day. But the one thing that stood out for me most, was the insight into the female sexual brain.
Most women think about sex more than a guy. What they do differently though, is hide it well. We guys are blatant about it. We allow it to dominate us. We turn our heads when a hot chic passes us in the street. We talk about it with our friends. We watch porn and jack off the moment we have a slight stiff cock.
Women use it though. They allow it to fill their entire being. They use it as a tool. It's like a weapon that will always keep a woman at the top of the food chain. We have no power over it. We are blind before it and will do anything to own it.
The problem for men though, is we cannot turn it off. Our off switch is a sweet load of cum dispersed every where and any where. A woman can lose it instantly. AND normally, 90% of the time, we are the cause of that loss. We turn a woman off by groping at her, by staring at her.
You want a woman to stay hot. Get hotter? Then play with her imagination. Small touches. Small, short phrases. A small smile. A gentle kiss. A sweet suggestion. The best advice I ever received? When seducing a woman, LESS IS MORE.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
How do I get into porn in South Africa?
The industry in this country is small. It has so much untapped potential that it's waiting to explode. I think the biggest problem is that South African's in general are still very close minded when it comes to this topic. For some reason we all deny to actually enjoying it. AND in my experience the big mouthed anti-porn activists are the silent viewers. They watch it with a pained experience while jacking off to internet porn.
So you wanna get into porn? Consider the following:
Once you're in, you're in for life. Even if you get out, those images and movies will be around forever. If you can live with this and the fact that you'll be screwing strangers in a variety of positions, then I say go for it. You can make yourself a lot of money. And if you're wise with it, you can make enough over a five year period to set yourself up for life.
So where do you go? What's the first step?
I've sent a mail to Karen from Studio 28 to discuss this with her. Stay tuned and we'll get some real answers up here.
If you are keen to look into this then drop me a mail. p.tren@live.com
So you wanna get into porn? Consider the following:
Once you're in, you're in for life. Even if you get out, those images and movies will be around forever. If you can live with this and the fact that you'll be screwing strangers in a variety of positions, then I say go for it. You can make yourself a lot of money. And if you're wise with it, you can make enough over a five year period to set yourself up for life.
So where do you go? What's the first step?
I've sent a mail to Karen from Studio 28 to discuss this with her. Stay tuned and we'll get some real answers up here.
If you are keen to look into this then drop me a mail. p.tren@live.com
I feel like vomiting!
Those that know me, know I support most aspects of the industry. Porn - YES. Prostitution - YES. What I will not tolerate is bestiality and child pornography and exploitation.
On Friday last week I got a very cryptic e-mail from a young African woman based in Sandton.
"Dear sir.
I luv ur blog. I can't talk now. I a sex worer in santon. plese, plese, plese, plese, plese, plese cum see me.
regards - amazon 07X XXX XXXX"
Now normally I don't respond to this type of crap because I get plenty of mail from people just trying to do their own shit for their own gain. But something made me call the number. A Nigerian fella answered, I told him I wanted to speak to Amazon. He said R300.
R300 for what?
Whatever you want.
Okay. I want Amazon. How long will I have?
1 hour.
Give me the address. Can I come through now?
Yes. Come.
So I drive through to this place on the outskirts of Sandton in an old house with broken windows. As I pull up, 3 massive Nigerian's greet me in the driveway and my heart is pounding. "What the fuck are you doing!!!!" rings through my head. I'm doing stuff I promised myself I never would.
The big guy opens my door and squats down, preventing me from getting out. He says nothing, so I pull out R300 and give it to him. He leads me into the very dark house and past closed doors to another room.
"Amazon?" I ask.
He nods and walks away. I take a deep breath and go in. It stinks!!! It stinks of sweat and cum. I hold my breath. I meet Amazon.
She's on the bed. Pretty. Sweet. Naked. 15 fucking years old!!!!!!!!!!!!
Before I can even greet her she opens her legs and invites me onto the bed.
I sit down next to her and push her thighs closed. I tell her who I am and she starts crying. She begs me to help her, so I tell her I will. But first I need to get out of there with my life. So I tell her to act like I'm fucking her. So she does. She moans, she screams occasionally and I bang against the wall with my fist. We put it on for 5 minutes and then I get the hell out of there.
15 minutes later I'm at the cop station and within an hour they raid the house. They pulled out 4 teenage girls, two of them were busy with clients. Men in their fifties I'm sure.
I haven't spoken to "Amazon" since because she's with child services.
When I got home I was so sick I couldn't eat. I showered and went straight to bed. What a sick fucking world we live in sometimes.
On Friday last week I got a very cryptic e-mail from a young African woman based in Sandton.
"Dear sir.
I luv ur blog. I can't talk now. I a sex worer in santon. plese, plese, plese, plese, plese, plese cum see me.
regards - amazon 07X XXX XXXX"
Now normally I don't respond to this type of crap because I get plenty of mail from people just trying to do their own shit for their own gain. But something made me call the number. A Nigerian fella answered, I told him I wanted to speak to Amazon. He said R300.
R300 for what?
Whatever you want.
Okay. I want Amazon. How long will I have?
1 hour.
Give me the address. Can I come through now?
Yes. Come.
So I drive through to this place on the outskirts of Sandton in an old house with broken windows. As I pull up, 3 massive Nigerian's greet me in the driveway and my heart is pounding. "What the fuck are you doing!!!!" rings through my head. I'm doing stuff I promised myself I never would.
The big guy opens my door and squats down, preventing me from getting out. He says nothing, so I pull out R300 and give it to him. He leads me into the very dark house and past closed doors to another room.
"Amazon?" I ask.
He nods and walks away. I take a deep breath and go in. It stinks!!! It stinks of sweat and cum. I hold my breath. I meet Amazon.
She's on the bed. Pretty. Sweet. Naked. 15 fucking years old!!!!!!!!!!!!
Before I can even greet her she opens her legs and invites me onto the bed.
I sit down next to her and push her thighs closed. I tell her who I am and she starts crying. She begs me to help her, so I tell her I will. But first I need to get out of there with my life. So I tell her to act like I'm fucking her. So she does. She moans, she screams occasionally and I bang against the wall with my fist. We put it on for 5 minutes and then I get the hell out of there.
15 minutes later I'm at the cop station and within an hour they raid the house. They pulled out 4 teenage girls, two of them were busy with clients. Men in their fifties I'm sure.
I haven't spoken to "Amazon" since because she's with child services.
When I got home I was so sick I couldn't eat. I showered and went straight to bed. What a sick fucking world we live in sometimes.
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Defending Heidi Fleiss SA
I received a couple of e-mails from guys complaining about the service, or lack there off from an escort agency, Heidi Fleiss. As I usually do, I contacted her regarding this. She came back to me within a couple of hours and directed me to her website: www.heidifleiss-sa.com
Now I have never used her services so I can't comment on the women, but I must say I'm hugely impressed with the little I've gotten back from her. She's been in the industry for many years and has experience both local and abroad. For me Heidi is friendly, appreciative, proud of her girls and professional when it comes to the business she runs. She admits there is a misconception about how she operates, as she brings a completely new way of doing things to South Africa. I'm intrigued by this and when I find out more I'll let you know.
If you ever want to sit down and just chat to an escort, then someone with Heidi's experience is the way to go. I always have fun with those that "know" the industry.
I'm going on a limb here after spending an hour reviewing her site. Princess H, looks incredibly hot. For me its the long legs, dark hair, big boobs and tattoos that do it for me. If that's your thing too then here's the link to check her out. Please note that I am in no way recommending her as a MUST. I'm simply suggesting that a woman that looks that dangerous can't be all bad right?
(http://www.heidifleiss-sa.com/princess_h.html) If anyone has used her then pop me a mail. I'm keen to get the review status started. My usual followers from my previous address and new ones are always asking me for recommendations and unfortunately I have none to give. It will work so much better for me when I can finally get the recommended side of things up and running and direct people straight to the women of my choice.
If you have any other complaints about her service then please go directly to Heidi following the above links. She is very responsive and will no doubt be as helpful as possible.
Now I have never used her services so I can't comment on the women, but I must say I'm hugely impressed with the little I've gotten back from her. She's been in the industry for many years and has experience both local and abroad. For me Heidi is friendly, appreciative, proud of her girls and professional when it comes to the business she runs. She admits there is a misconception about how she operates, as she brings a completely new way of doing things to South Africa. I'm intrigued by this and when I find out more I'll let you know.
If you ever want to sit down and just chat to an escort, then someone with Heidi's experience is the way to go. I always have fun with those that "know" the industry.
I'm going on a limb here after spending an hour reviewing her site. Princess H, looks incredibly hot. For me its the long legs, dark hair, big boobs and tattoos that do it for me. If that's your thing too then here's the link to check her out. Please note that I am in no way recommending her as a MUST. I'm simply suggesting that a woman that looks that dangerous can't be all bad right?
(http://www.heidifleiss-sa.com/princess_h.html) If anyone has used her then pop me a mail. I'm keen to get the review status started. My usual followers from my previous address and new ones are always asking me for recommendations and unfortunately I have none to give. It will work so much better for me when I can finally get the recommended side of things up and running and direct people straight to the women of my choice.
If you have any other complaints about her service then please go directly to Heidi following the above links. She is very responsive and will no doubt be as helpful as possible.
Friday, June 11, 2010
Why would anyone spend R3000 for sex?
Fact is you wouldn't. If it's sex you want then I suggest you take a drive through Rosebank or pick yourself up a copy of sex trader at your local sex shop and find yourself someone willing to spread their legs for a few hundred rand.
No, when you're paying more than 3k for a couple of hours with an escort, you're paying for a lot more than the sex. You're paying for companionship and time spent with a sophisticated and well educated woman who will dedicate every second of her time to ensuring that you feel like a king. But it goes deeper than that for an escort that knows how to utilize her full potential. Believe it or not, most men that are willing to splash the cash are hard working executives that have very unfulfilled personal lives. What they crave most from their money is intimacy. Something they don't get at home. Something marriage has a way of destroying. Sad but very, very true.
Having worked as a writer for Hustler for many years, I had the pleasure of meeting many really interesting women in all the sex trades. Escorts, are by far the most interesting, because believe it or not, most of them actually still enjoy sex. Most of them "love" their clients and have this uncanny ability of making the client feel that love. A good escort will keep her clients, a bad escort won't.
I spent an evening with Miss Clara. Retired from the business at the age of 28, she was a high priced escort for 9 years. What an amazing woman! Now I'm sure some of you will have heard the name, but here is a woman, based in Cape Town, that commanded the attention of an entire room. Not the best looking woman by far, but she knew how to "love", in and out the bed. This was a woman that spent weekends with royalty, pro athletes and Hollywood movie stars. This was a woman that was paid R200 000 for a single weekend. $25000 to be exact, back in 2003. She told me her life story and I was captivated. From rags to riches, a Hollywood movie waiting to be told. In her final 2 years in the biz, she maintained 12 clients only, but still made over a million rand a year. She was so good that she bragged that after just 2 hours with her, a man would blow his load in under a minute.
What made her so successful? She was vocal. She knew how to market herself, something that other escorts seriously lack. The ability to put yourself out there and have clients clamoring over themselves for your time. She hosted webcams, posed nude for top photographers free of charge. She spent free time with people who had influence, with people who knew people and would gladly promote her. Word of mouth is an escorts most valuable marketing tool. But when that mouth piece belongs to a married man your chances of the word being spread are slim to zero. Nobody wants others to know how he spends his money.
I agree, it's vital that escorts live a secluded and private life. Protecting your lifestyle from others saves you embarrassment and awkwardness around family and friends. But that doesn't mean you only reveal yourself to your clients. There are many ways to promote yourself. The life span for an escort at the top is short lived. Make as much money as you can so when you get out, you get out with money to chase your passion.
No, when you're paying more than 3k for a couple of hours with an escort, you're paying for a lot more than the sex. You're paying for companionship and time spent with a sophisticated and well educated woman who will dedicate every second of her time to ensuring that you feel like a king. But it goes deeper than that for an escort that knows how to utilize her full potential. Believe it or not, most men that are willing to splash the cash are hard working executives that have very unfulfilled personal lives. What they crave most from their money is intimacy. Something they don't get at home. Something marriage has a way of destroying. Sad but very, very true.
Having worked as a writer for Hustler for many years, I had the pleasure of meeting many really interesting women in all the sex trades. Escorts, are by far the most interesting, because believe it or not, most of them actually still enjoy sex. Most of them "love" their clients and have this uncanny ability of making the client feel that love. A good escort will keep her clients, a bad escort won't.
I spent an evening with Miss Clara. Retired from the business at the age of 28, she was a high priced escort for 9 years. What an amazing woman! Now I'm sure some of you will have heard the name, but here is a woman, based in Cape Town, that commanded the attention of an entire room. Not the best looking woman by far, but she knew how to "love", in and out the bed. This was a woman that spent weekends with royalty, pro athletes and Hollywood movie stars. This was a woman that was paid R200 000 for a single weekend. $25000 to be exact, back in 2003. She told me her life story and I was captivated. From rags to riches, a Hollywood movie waiting to be told. In her final 2 years in the biz, she maintained 12 clients only, but still made over a million rand a year. She was so good that she bragged that after just 2 hours with her, a man would blow his load in under a minute.
What made her so successful? She was vocal. She knew how to market herself, something that other escorts seriously lack. The ability to put yourself out there and have clients clamoring over themselves for your time. She hosted webcams, posed nude for top photographers free of charge. She spent free time with people who had influence, with people who knew people and would gladly promote her. Word of mouth is an escorts most valuable marketing tool. But when that mouth piece belongs to a married man your chances of the word being spread are slim to zero. Nobody wants others to know how he spends his money.
I agree, it's vital that escorts live a secluded and private life. Protecting your lifestyle from others saves you embarrassment and awkwardness around family and friends. But that doesn't mean you only reveal yourself to your clients. There are many ways to promote yourself. The life span for an escort at the top is short lived. Make as much money as you can so when you get out, you get out with money to chase your passion.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
SA woman attract international porn industry
Three of SA's hottest strippers have landed lucrative contracts with one of Europe's largest producers of online porn.
I'm waiting for an official press release, but I was told the three woman will be based here in SA and create unique content via webcam and travel to Germany twice a year were they'll strut their stuff in front of the camera. Their annual earnings will be in the region of between 100 000 to 250 000 euros. Not too shabby!!
I asked Jester, the marketing director, what the appeal was and he said SA woman offer a different kind of sex appeal that Europeans find incredibly appealing. NICE! I AGREE!
Jester will be here during the world cup and will be joining me for an executive evening out with some sexy woman. Who knows who else may be discovered...
Talking about porn. There have been numerous reports about South African women shaking their asses for the camera in the U.K. I had the pleasure of meeting a young woman who did just that about 3 months ago. In 4 years of working in the U.K making porn, she screwed more than three hundred times and when she returned to Benoni, she bought a house, a car, started a business and still had over a million rand in the bank. Would that be difficult to believe? No, because she is fucking hot and her pussy tastes wonderful. Yes I know, but I asked, she said sure, so there was no way I was turning away from that. She sells flowers now!!!
I've sent an e-mail to Intrepid Pictures in the states. I've told them I know a couple of Gorgeous woman that want to get into the lucrative porn industry in the states and how I go about marketing them. I received a reply this morning. More on that later after I meet with the girls next week. I want to post some pictures of them up here.
One last comment. If you like or are thinking about going to a massage parlour in Sandton, I have an email I'm going to share. I have 33 others to go through so I'm hoping another one is from someone else who went there after I put the call out yesterday. The Business itself has chosen to ignore my e-mail so I'm assuming they simply don't give a shit about customer satisfaction. That's their problem.
Which reminds me of another topic I'll be writing about. Why is the industry so aloof? They are plying for our business, yet they are so scared to actually communicate with people.
Later
I'm waiting for an official press release, but I was told the three woman will be based here in SA and create unique content via webcam and travel to Germany twice a year were they'll strut their stuff in front of the camera. Their annual earnings will be in the region of between 100 000 to 250 000 euros. Not too shabby!!
I asked Jester, the marketing director, what the appeal was and he said SA woman offer a different kind of sex appeal that Europeans find incredibly appealing. NICE! I AGREE!
Jester will be here during the world cup and will be joining me for an executive evening out with some sexy woman. Who knows who else may be discovered...
Talking about porn. There have been numerous reports about South African women shaking their asses for the camera in the U.K. I had the pleasure of meeting a young woman who did just that about 3 months ago. In 4 years of working in the U.K making porn, she screwed more than three hundred times and when she returned to Benoni, she bought a house, a car, started a business and still had over a million rand in the bank. Would that be difficult to believe? No, because she is fucking hot and her pussy tastes wonderful. Yes I know, but I asked, she said sure, so there was no way I was turning away from that. She sells flowers now!!!
I've sent an e-mail to Intrepid Pictures in the states. I've told them I know a couple of Gorgeous woman that want to get into the lucrative porn industry in the states and how I go about marketing them. I received a reply this morning. More on that later after I meet with the girls next week. I want to post some pictures of them up here.
One last comment. If you like or are thinking about going to a massage parlour in Sandton, I have an email I'm going to share. I have 33 others to go through so I'm hoping another one is from someone else who went there after I put the call out yesterday. The Business itself has chosen to ignore my e-mail so I'm assuming they simply don't give a shit about customer satisfaction. That's their problem.
Which reminds me of another topic I'll be writing about. Why is the industry so aloof? They are plying for our business, yet they are so scared to actually communicate with people.
Later
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Midnight SA - About Fucking Time!
From what I can see, having surfed various websites in this country that offer some kind of adult content, they all have one common theme. Give me your money!! Now normally I wouldn't mind. I'm not apposed to parting with my well earned money to buy a Hustler magazine or the latest Loslyf, but at least they have decent content. Good looking woman, good articles and entertaining content. But the websites? BORING!! You'd think that someone in South Africa would take the time to put something up that was well worth the money asked for.
Let's get something straight. It obviously depends on what you're looking for. If it's simply sex with an escort, then yes. The more you pay, the better your experience. Woman that charge R800 for an hour will most likely fuck you in two different ways. The 5 to 15 minute kind for the full price. And believe it or not, this is not a special run by the cellphone companies. There's no per second billing here. You'll pay the full price and walk away feeling cheated and dirty.
If that's your thing then swing over to a new website I came across called www.midnightsa.co.za and have a look at some of the woman on there. HONEYS!! You'll pay for their services but if the pictures are anything to go by then it'll be well worth it. Plus you pay for two hours, so you know these woman take their time getting to know you. I wish I wasn't so fucking broke!! Maybe I'll get lucky and I can do a full review on one of these woman one day.
So here's my goal. I'm going to start a website that will offer unbiased reviews on websites and the whole sex trade in this country. This includes, porn and those that peddle it. Why? Because there are so many bull shit places out there!! South African's have been dealt a harsh set of cards and all we do is constantly except it. Have you ever been to a strip club in the States? No. It will open your mind. You walk in there and you are treated like a king! The girls are friendly and they are willing to EARN your money. Here???? You go to Teasers and get pulled on the stage and made a complete tool out of. It's all in good fun? FUCK THAT! I go there to see sexy woman giving me their undivided attention. No to feel like I'm playing "pass the parcel" in a twisted game of merry-go-round.
I recently received an e-mail from a gentlemen who spent a good amount of money on going to a massage parlour in Sandton. Now this place has its own website, the girls look clean and the prices make the place look worth it. Meaning you aren’t paying a hundred bucks for a hand job. Needless to say, this guy was so bitterly disappointed. The woman was cold, frigid and totally aloof. I'm going to contact them for comment before I post his review.
Cheers. If there are any decent places out there who would like to put their services up to the test. Drop me a mail. p.tren@live.com
Let's get something straight. It obviously depends on what you're looking for. If it's simply sex with an escort, then yes. The more you pay, the better your experience. Woman that charge R800 for an hour will most likely fuck you in two different ways. The 5 to 15 minute kind for the full price. And believe it or not, this is not a special run by the cellphone companies. There's no per second billing here. You'll pay the full price and walk away feeling cheated and dirty.
If that's your thing then swing over to a new website I came across called www.midnightsa.co.za and have a look at some of the woman on there. HONEYS!! You'll pay for their services but if the pictures are anything to go by then it'll be well worth it. Plus you pay for two hours, so you know these woman take their time getting to know you. I wish I wasn't so fucking broke!! Maybe I'll get lucky and I can do a full review on one of these woman one day.
So here's my goal. I'm going to start a website that will offer unbiased reviews on websites and the whole sex trade in this country. This includes, porn and those that peddle it. Why? Because there are so many bull shit places out there!! South African's have been dealt a harsh set of cards and all we do is constantly except it. Have you ever been to a strip club in the States? No. It will open your mind. You walk in there and you are treated like a king! The girls are friendly and they are willing to EARN your money. Here???? You go to Teasers and get pulled on the stage and made a complete tool out of. It's all in good fun? FUCK THAT! I go there to see sexy woman giving me their undivided attention. No to feel like I'm playing "pass the parcel" in a twisted game of merry-go-round.
I recently received an e-mail from a gentlemen who spent a good amount of money on going to a massage parlour in Sandton. Now this place has its own website, the girls look clean and the prices make the place look worth it. Meaning you aren’t paying a hundred bucks for a hand job. Needless to say, this guy was so bitterly disappointed. The woman was cold, frigid and totally aloof. I'm going to contact them for comment before I post his review.
Cheers. If there are any decent places out there who would like to put their services up to the test. Drop me a mail. p.tren@live.com
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Want to mix the world cup with SA's hottest woman?
South Africa is known for two things. Great weather (in summer) and the sexiest woman on the planet. It also hosts two of the best strip club franchises in the world with Teasers and The Grand.
But do you really want to sit in a smoke infested environment around strangers watching these hotties take their clothes off? Well there is a great option available.
We have signed contracts with several of the countries sexiest strippers for the duration of the world cup and are arranging special evenings twice a week in a controlled and secure environment. You'll be able to sit in complete comfort and privacy, drinking alcohol, indulging in fine food, while in the company of these beautiful woman.
The above is for groups only. A minimum of 4 and a maximum of twenty. For every group there will be 2 girls for every 4 people.
Please note that this is not an invitation for prostitution and there is no sex for sale. These girls are professional business woman who know how to shake their well toned asses.
Send an e-mail if you are interested in getting rates. p.tren@live.com
But do you really want to sit in a smoke infested environment around strangers watching these hotties take their clothes off? Well there is a great option available.
We have signed contracts with several of the countries sexiest strippers for the duration of the world cup and are arranging special evenings twice a week in a controlled and secure environment. You'll be able to sit in complete comfort and privacy, drinking alcohol, indulging in fine food, while in the company of these beautiful woman.
The above is for groups only. A minimum of 4 and a maximum of twenty. For every group there will be 2 girls for every 4 people.
Please note that this is not an invitation for prostitution and there is no sex for sale. These girls are professional business woman who know how to shake their well toned asses.
Send an e-mail if you are interested in getting rates. p.tren@live.com
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