Why would anyone spend R3000 for sex?

Fact is you wouldn't. If it's sex you want then I suggest you take a drive through Rosebank or pick yourself up a copy of sex trader at your local sex shop and find yourself someone willing to spread their legs for a few hundred rand.

No, when you're paying more than 3k for a couple of hours with an escort, you're paying for a lot more than the sex. You're paying for companionship and time spent with a sophisticated and well educated woman who will dedicate every second of her time to ensuring that you feel like a king. But it goes deeper than that for an escort that knows how to utilize her full potential. Believe it or not, most men that are willing to splash the cash are hard working executives that have very unfulfilled personal lives. What they crave most from their money is intimacy. Something they don't get at home. Something marriage has a way of destroying. Sad but very, very true.

Having worked as a writer for Hustler for many years, I had the pleasure of meeting many really interesting women in all the sex trades. Escorts, are by far the most interesting, because believe it or not, most of them actually still enjoy sex. Most of them "love" their clients and have this uncanny ability of making the client feel that love. A good escort will keep her clients, a bad escort won't.

I spent an evening with Miss Clara. Retired from the business at the age of 28, she was a high priced escort for 9 years. What an amazing woman! Now I'm sure some of you will have heard the name, but here is a woman, based in Cape Town, that commanded the attention of an entire room. Not the best looking woman by far, but she knew how to "love", in and out the bed. This was a woman that spent weekends with royalty, pro athletes and Hollywood movie stars. This was a woman that was paid R200 000 for a single weekend. $25000 to be exact, back in 2003. She told me her life story and I was captivated. From rags to riches, a Hollywood movie waiting to be told. In her final 2 years in the biz, she maintained 12 clients only, but still made over a million rand a year. She was so good that she bragged that after just 2 hours with her, a man would blow his load in under a minute.

What made her so successful? She was vocal. She knew how to market herself, something that other escorts seriously lack. The ability to put yourself out there and have clients clamoring over themselves for your time. She hosted webcams, posed nude for top photographers free of charge. She spent free time with people who had influence, with people who knew people and would gladly promote her. Word of mouth is an escorts most valuable marketing tool. But when that mouth piece belongs to a married man your chances of the word being spread are slim to zero. Nobody wants others to know how he spends his money.

I agree, it's vital that escorts live a secluded and private life. Protecting your lifestyle from others saves you embarrassment and awkwardness around family and friends. But that doesn't mean you only reveal yourself to your clients. There are many ways to promote yourself. The life span for an escort at the top is short lived. Make as much money as you can so when you get out, you get out with money to chase your passion.