Seduce her imagination...

...and you'll get to taste the sweet nectar straight from her pussy.

I remembered a day when I sat down with renowned sex therapist Amelia Day. Based in Florida, US, back when I was writing for Rockstar, a fantastic porn magazine that's launched the careers of some of today's hottest porn stars. She was fascinated by the fact that I was South African. As I sat down in her living room, she leaned over and whispered..."I've never fucked a South African man before." I was rock hard in 0.2 seconds, sweaty and horny instantly. She smiled, sat back, crossed her legs.
"The imagination is the most powerful sexual tool we humans posses. It's more potent than a six pack and blows a leggy blond with big boobs straight out the water."

I couldn't help but laugh a little uncomfortably as I sat there trying to shift what was becoming an increasingly painful hard-on that was lying in a horrible position. She noticed my discomfort and promptly told me to right myself.

So there I was, standing in front of a really beautiful woman with a wicked smile, hand down my pants, shifting my cock around. BLIND!

We spoke about a lot of things that day. But the one thing that stood out for me most, was the insight into the female sexual brain.

Most women think about sex more than a guy. What they do differently though, is hide it well. We guys are blatant about it. We allow it to dominate us. We turn our heads when a hot chic passes us in the street. We talk about it with our friends. We watch porn and jack off the moment we have a slight stiff cock.

Women use it though. They allow it to fill their entire being. They use it as a tool. It's like a weapon that will always keep a woman at the top of the food chain. We have no power over it. We are blind before it and will do anything to own it.

The problem for men though, is we cannot turn it off. Our off switch is a sweet load of cum dispersed every where and any where. A woman can lose it instantly. AND normally, 90% of the time, we are the cause of that loss. We turn a woman off by groping at her, by staring at her.

You want a woman to stay hot. Get hotter? Then play with her imagination. Small touches. Small, short phrases. A small smile. A gentle kiss. A sweet suggestion. The best advice I ever received? When seducing a woman, LESS IS MORE.